I remember how powerful it was to learn in one of my trainings that it really only took one person to take the first step to change an unpleasant dynamic between a couple.  That shocked me on two fronts.  First, I was hearing that I had the power to affect change in our relationship even when I felt my partner was behaving badly.  Secondly, I didn’t have to focus on trying to get HIM to be different, I could just change my own behavior.  Suddenly I felt more hopeful.  The ball was in my cou...
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